Mickey
Well-known member
I've learned that when it comes to trans and ambiguous sexual identities, the best thing is to ask the person what pronoun s-he prefers. If Conchita Wurst wants to be called "she" or "he", that's entirely up to her/him.
In the meantime, you call Conchita "him", I would call Conchita "her" and we would both be right. Stop trying to attack everyone on this.
I'd pick "Him" for Tom, "Her" for Conchita, in the same way as I'd pick "Him" for Barry Humphries, "Her" for Dame Edna.