I do of course see your point and I can agree up to a point. In 2008 Portugal itself had a song about death and widowhood, although the words weren't quite as explicit as in this case, that didn't shock me at all, quite the opposite. Death however, despite being very sad and tragic, is something natural coming to everyone in the end whereas this is just ugly and very unnatural indeed.
Why would you want to sing about something like that in a light musical contest where many people won't even understand what he's talking about? I myself could only grasp the whole meaning by actually reading the lyrics:
Silent cry, every night
This pain will never even lie
Daddy’s home, so she tries to hide
She calls her mom, but never a reply
She cries, cries, cries
She’s all alone
Daddy why, why, why, leave me alone
She calls for help,
She calls for help, but no one seems to care,
She calls for help but no one seems to care.
She keeps on running, running, running from this crazy life
She keeps on running, running, running, never sees the light
I can see the angels standing by your side
It’ll be alright
He’s back again, just one more time
Just wants to see her mother smile
She can’t forget her only child
Mama, let the devil in the house
She cries, cries, cries
She’s all alone
Daddy why, why, why, leave me alone
She calls for help,
She calls for help, but no one seems to care,
She calls for help but no one seems to care.
She keeps on running, running, running from this crazy life
She keeps on running, running, running, never sees the light
I can see the angels standing by your side
It’ll be alright
She keeps on running, running, running from this crazy life
She keeps on running, running, running, never sees the light
This is actually a horror story told in the 3rd person about a a very sensitive theme that shouldn't be treated lightly like it's just any other song. And the point is that exactly: nobody was talking about it. People are mostly just discussing small litle details of staging and stuff.
Well, if staging is actually supposed to have any relation to the meaning of the song, this act (and the whole esc show consequently) would have to be shunned from prime time tv!