I believe there are times when people were blowing hate out of proportion and things get too heated. But when it comes to Sweden, there are some contextual hints of what's happening before and alongside the contest.
It's gonna be long, so bear with me.
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In the 2010s, Sweden's influence on the show can be seen from three beta voting changes, with two of them was adapted from Melfest.
- 2013, Malmo: the average ranking system which is the most complicated voting determining type I've seen. The voting breakdown that was released are only by average rankings. This wasn't adapted in Melfest but to be noted this system is only used for Eurovision in 2013.
- 2016, Stockholm: the separated voting system and announcement type was likely adapted from Melfest.
- 2019, Tel Aviv: the results announcement was a unique change on Eurovision 2019... until somehow Melfest adopted it starting from 2020.
Well, it was a weird 'coincidence' that, after the rentroduction of juries as a major voting determinator, changes to voting sequences are somehow tied to Sweden, more or less. Okay, let's say that Melodifestivalen has been there for a long, long time and it can be a good study model for the contest... aren't there other countries to be voting models from? Or wouldn't they develop a new one unique to the contest?
Oh, yeah, a man named Christer Bjorkman was mostly on the Eurovision set in the 2010s. Totally forgot about that.
And this haven't included that "COVID special" pre-record vocals allowance they've imposed in 2021... starting from Osterdahl's reign.
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There is a contextual narrative we have in the Eurovision sphere, towards Sweden's attempt on the 7th win. Especially, after Sweden secured two wins in the 2010s, this is an easy attempt to build hype around their entries. "Sweden is just that good, they can go towards equaling the record number of wins Ireland has".
I noticed this, since maybe on almost all contest I've followed after 2015, I've heard some lines similar to "can they achieve that 7th win?" while the voting sequence was happening with Sweden being on the upper part of the jury's score. It was as if things happening behind closed doors to ensure that... but that means I'm seeing things that 'aren't even there', as you've stated, so it's not valid, right?
(The only jokish assumption I can make about 2021 is that, fans generally don't hype Voice, hence Sweden will be roasted on the internet ever they let Tusse there in the juries' top 3.)
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Within 2023's contest, it was easier to create a Sweden-winning narrative with Loreen being present. Being one of the most well-loved winners of Eurovision, she's an easy way to gain fans' support and hype. I assume almost all modern Eurofans want her to come back. Even with whatever shite of a song was sent, as long as it's Lor-Jesus, hype is easy. "Who dares to hurt the most loved Eurovision winner we had? Even the media won't."
With the allegedly jury-superior announcement, and the landslide jury points, victory was secured. Lo and behold, Kaarija came out of nowhere with 376 points. It ruined that ideal win.
To invoke our memory, back in 2012, Sweden won by the jury
and the public. In 2023, the jury chose her. The public? Almost.
Sweden won. They got that 7th win with the jury's preference, which some fans have resented towards. Lor-Jesus sacrifices herself to get hate from people who loved her. Fanwars happening.
All of this for that ambition of asking Ireland to kiss their ass.
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Okay, this has been way too long than expected. The TLDR: I want us to remember that the voting change fiascos we had last decade is all traced back to Sweden, and the hype and possibly special treatment around Sweden is connected to that 7th win attempt.
Yes, resentment about something can drive people to get mad and accuse unreasonable things, I agree with you. I agree that usually fan favorites would get good spots as per usual. But this affair between Sweden and EBU even extends to the way the contest is done, I don't know if it's plain resentment or a subtle yet slick collusion.